America’s Self-Love Coach
Loving yourself is a revolutionary act!
Live like you mean it!
The Passionate Life!
You deserve to love your life, love your spiritpreneur “bliss-ness”, and love your sacred relationships.
Abiola Abrams, the Self-Worth Midwife, is an award-winning ESSENCE advice columnist, empowerment coach, transformational speaker, author, and blogger. Her last book, “The Sacred Bombshell Handbook of Self-Love won the award for “Best Self Help” at the African American Literary Awards. Her inspirational blog and videos were selected as ones to watch by Black Enterprise. Abiola’s inspirational tools include: 2 meditation albums and the African Goddess Affirmation Cards. Her new Sacred Bombshell Self-Care Kits Include: the Womb Chakra Bliss Kit, the Unbreak My Heart Chakra Kit, and the Aphrodisiac Love Spell Manifestation Kit. You may have seen her advice on networks from MTV to the Discovery Channel.
“Are you in need of an intimacy intervention or a LIFE intervention? Just ask Abiola!”
- Essence Magazine
“Read on to find out more about Abrams’ fearless approach and limitless aspirations. We dare you.”
- Uptown Magazine
“That is the best advice ever given on this show!”
- Bill Cunningham, The Bill Cunningham Show
“Multimedia lifestyle maven Abiola Abrams is a one-woman inspirational show that has taken the web and beyond by storm.”
- Black Enterprise
“Abiola Abrams is spreading her gospel of empowering people culturally, emotionally, sexually and politically across every possible media platform.”
- Paper Magazine
Our mothers had “Dear Abby” and we have “Dear Abiola.”
My great-grandmother in Guyana, South America helped women to give birth to their babies.
It is my calling to help you give birth to yourself. That’s why I’m known as the Self-Worth Midwife.
I’m an Essence love advice columnist, empowerment coach, transformational speaker, award-winning author, and modern day conjure woman.
I create sacred feminine empowerment tools to help extraordinary women and spirit-based entrepreneurs to get aligned with our desires so that we can manifest our juiciest lives.
Experience the unapologetic life.
Self-Love Coach, Advice Columnist, Media Personality, Speaker
So excited that you’re here. Are you ready to find your pleasure, passion and purpose and answer your life’s calling?
Every word is an affirmation or prayer. With every word you speak you are casting a spell over your life. What is that spell saying? Is it saying that you are beautiful, funny, talented, creative and lovable? Is it saying that you are stupid, a loser, an idiot, poor and not enough? We fear rejection but we reject ourselves more than anyone. We fear criticism but we say things to ourselves that we wouldn’t dare say to our worst enemies.
You are worthy. You are loved. You are love.
The Sacred Bombshell Self-Love Blog
Welcome to The Sacred Bombshell Lifestyle Guide for Extraordinary Women! My passionate living blog is all about taking self-love to self-launch. This is the place to get your namaste on, find your voice, and answer your calling — with sacred soulcare, skills, and strategy. Love yourself, love your relationships, love your work, love your life.
Learn More About My Work
If you want to know how to answer your calling and live on purpose, you are in the right place.
Coming soon: Unapologetic Feminine Power Summer Camp, Sanctuary Moon Circles & the monthly Goddess Groups.
The Sacred Bombshell Handbook
The award-winning “Sacred Bombshell Handbook of Self-Love” is your wake-up call to stop being just a survivor. You deserve to thrive. Consider this a vision quest to the center of yourself. Why is it that a woman living in her joy is seen as suspicious? I have reclaimed the word “bombshell” to mean a woman who embodies her power in mind, body and spirit!
The Goddess Affirmation Cards
Have you seen “The African Goddess Affirmation Cards” or the “Womanifesting! Fertility Goddess Affirmation Cards?” Every word is an affirmation or prayer. With every word you speak you are casting a spell over your life.
The School of Feminine Power presents
7-week virtual adventure
UNAPOLOGETIC Feminine Power Summer Camp
For Extraordinary Women
All you need to bring to this powerful transformational course is a willing spirit.
UNBLOCK YOUR BLESSINGS
This is a 7 week transformational online experience.
GET ALIGNED WITH YOUR PURPOSE
It’s time to stop feeling like an impostor in your own life.
BREAK OUT OF YOUR COMFORT ZONE
Don’t find yourself in the same exact place in September.
“I enrolled in Abiola Abrams’ Spiritpreneur Mastercourse and we were powerfully moved with excitement each week. By the 4th week, I found the quality of knowledge required to trademark my own system. All of this and more was gained in the Sacred Bombshell laboratory!”
- Akua Kariamu, Creatrix
“I rarely come back to campus for a speaker that I have already seen but I am coming back to hear more from Abiola!”
- Dr. Joni Bastian, V.P. for Student Affairs
“Abiola Abrams took our campus by storm with an in-depth presentation on how you can motivate and develop your inner “me” and learn how to make it happen for yourself. If you need some healing; some motivation; some direction on personal life issues, then Abiola is for you!”
- Brent Reeves, Director of Multicultural Affairs
“What can I say about the amazing Abiola Abrams?! I have learned so much while working with her; not only from a business perspective. I’ve also gained a business friend that is in the same tribe! Abiola has provided me with the tools to look within in order to run a successful business. The tools that she provided are all heart-centered given with a firm approach. Her spiritpreneur advice and savvy is easy to follow and understand. I am a life-long client!”
- Shawntell T’Neke, The Sensualista, CEO & founder of Sensually Hers Evolved
“Abiola’s non-judgmental coaching approach allows her to sincerely listen and give empowering and insightful feedback. Abiola is accepting of all people. She speaks to the Queen that we each have inside of us. Abiola is someone I am very blessed to know and work with.”
- Emerald Lavender, Founder, Pink Balloons for Lunch
“Working with Abiola was a Godsend! She helped me manifest what I had been visualizing. This was not an easy feat considering that I could not even find the words to properly articulate my vision. She was patient, knowledgeable and able to tap into my faith in a way that inspired confidence and action. Abiola helped the ministry of my coaching practice evolve into all I desired and more. She is a blessing for anyone that chooses her as their guide.”
- Renair Amin, Master Certified Coach, Holoklerian Specialist and Author
“Abiola has a beautiful, uplifting energy, and the ability to help many people with the work she does.”
- Gail Greenberg, Founder, Healthy Habits
“Abiola Abrams laser coached the group as the keynote speaker. This empowerment coach had people crying and thanking me for allowing Abiola to open their hearts. Her gift is heaven-sent, and I thank her for being a part of my annual Women’s Empowerment event. I am thankful, blessed, and happy that she has made it that much more of a success.”
- Felicia Lee, Founder, Laces, Inc.
“Abiola knows the power of influence and how to inspire. She has the natural ability and magnetism to make each and every woman feel absolutely amazing and confident enough to draw out her own Bombshell Diva. She is not only beautiful inside and out, she has an amazing positive upbeat energy and is truly a goddess in her own right. Abiola’s essence can be summed up in four words: beautiful, goddess, positive and energy.”
- Suzanne Oshima, Matchmaker and Founder of Single in Stilettos
“I was in a rut that I didn’t know how to get out of. When I started coaching with Abiola, I was dissatisfied with my body and the direction of my life in general. These days, I’m down 40 pounds, working a job that I like, and producing the type of art I can be proud of. If you’re ready to stop making excuses and to start making changes, I highly suggest working with Abiola.”
- Niesha Davis, Writer. Traveler. Badass